The ritual of drinking
When it comes to having a drink, it is not just serving the right drink, in the right glass that’s important. There is an element of performance associated with how you serve a drink. If you’re drinking tequila, you’ll be told to lick, shoot, suck": Lick the salt off your hand, then down the shot, and finish off by sucking on a wedge of lime. Drinking red wine might be more sophisticated, but there is still a performance. Traditionally, red wine is decanted and allowed to breath before drinking, and we all know that it takes 119.5 seconds to pour the perfect pint of Guinness – because good things come to those who wait.
We may just assume that the only reason we serve tequila with salt and lime or serve a burgundy in a different glass to a Bordeaux, is because of social expectations, but from a psychological perspective what we’re doing is engaging in a ritual. A ritual does not need any spiritual connection; it is simply a set of activities or gestures performed in a set sequence, and these actions change how we enjoy our food and drink. For example, researchers gave people a chocolate bar, and told half of the participants that they could eat it straight away, but the other half were told they had to perform a ritual before they could eat it. Those who engaged in the ritual spent 50% longer eating the chocolate, rated the experience as 15% more enjoyable, and most importantly, claimed they would spend almost twice as much for the chocolate¹. So, what was this mysterious ritual? Before unwrapping the chocolate, they first needed to break the bar in half, unwrap each half, and then eat it, before moving onto the second.